In general, women are more loving and caring. When they are in love, they could spend all of their time thinking or being with the man they love. With men, it is a little bit different. It is true that they also fall in love, but they are just not so much into these nice things, showing their emotions. A lot of men are also afraid of starting a deep, serious relationship – they are afraid of losing their freedom. So, sometimes, when you start in a relationship and you wonder why your boyfriend is not spending a lot of his time with you, well, this could be the reason. But since women do not resign easily, this is not an excuse for them. If you wonder how to make your boyfriend spend more time with you, here is the answer to your question.
Think of an activity you both like
If you want your boyfriend to spend more time with you then you should be more attractive to him, and this is not in the sexual way you may think. You should be more attractive to him in a more spiritual level. If you are in a relationship, then you probably have something in common, maybe an activity you both love doing, like cooking, walking in the park, riding bikes, or playing some kind of sport. If you are not used to do something together or you have no common interests (yes, this happens in the physical world), just think of something you can do together. If he likes soccer, why not spend some time with him while he is watching the game. You may find that you love this game. If you do not want to do this, then you may find another activity. There for sure has to be something that you will both like doing, even if it is new for you.
Find more about his interest
This includes not only his hobbies, but also his job. Think about it, do you like listening to your boyfriend when he has something going on in his work? If the answer is no, do not wonder if he eventually stops telling you about his problems at work. The best way to show him that you care about him and want to be with him is to listen. Ask him questions and try to understand what is he doing at work. If he is passionate about a sport and loves practicing it, learn the rules of the game, learn the names of the players and his favorite team. If you want your boyfriend to spend more time with you and to consider you more attractive and interesting than before, this is the right path for you.
To impress his friends
The best way to have a great relationship with your boyfriend is when you like his friends and they like you, too. A lot of men are afraid of relationships because they think they will lose their freedom and they won’t spend time with their friends, as in the old days. So, if you want to have a great relationship with your boyfriend is to make his friends like you. If they do not like you, they could tell your boyfriend things about you that you do not want to hear. And if these boys like you too, they would gladly have you as their company and won’t complain about having you with them on their night out, something that every girl would like to do from time to time. As you know the boy’s weak spot is their friends – if you conquer them, you will conquer and your man’s spare time.
Try not to show your worst side to your partner often
If you want your boyfriend to not be tired of you, then you should try from time to time to overcome your urge to complain or to yell at him. Women are famous for being too talkative and that is why their boyfriends get tired of them. If you do not want to lose him, try not to show your bad side too often, and when you can to not get mad. Of course, this does not mean that you have to be smiley all the time, or that this is hypocrisy. No, your boyfriend likes you the way you are, just try to avoid unnecessary quarrels and complains. This will be good for you both.