First dates can be trickier than you think. I know I get stressed and I am sure most women do too. You have to think about your hair, make up, outfit, the weather and sometimes even what to talk about. And if that isn’t stressful I don’t know what is.
Sometimes tough in our attempts to make everything perfect and look out the best we overdo it. In other words, anyone can tell that we tried a little bit too hard. And nobody wants to be thought of like that, no matter how much effort has put one into their look. Also, do you think any guy wants to know that? Well, no!
Many people make a mistake of doing too much for a first date and unless it is a Viennese ball, your effort wasn’t worthed. Guys prefer kind of a more natural type of girl and trying too hard might throw somebody off.
First of all it is always good to know where you are going, that way you can’t go wrong with clothing. Concert, bowling, picnic – they are one thing but. But a fancy dinner, going to the baller or something like that – totally the opposite.
So there are things that are always safe and work for multiple occasions.
- The classic look
As you can imagine the classic are a classic for a reason. You kind of can’t go wrong with a classic look. And let’s look at it from another point of view – if you are at work before that this can make it easier and you can transition to a night look just by a different bolder lipstick and some bigger necklace.
A flared jeans pant can be your savior. You might not realize that, but the flared jeans are way sexier than anyone expects. If the pant is black I would advise you not to wear a white shirt. Go for something lighter a shade of pink, purple or even red. Men respond well to red. But if you have a washed out denim flared jeans you can easily go for a white shirt. It will polish the look. But keep my advice and tuck in your shirt. That way you will look even better and sexier.
- The romper look
Rompers are fun, playful and sexy. They are easy to wear, because let’s face it – you don’t have to think about a tom a bottom and stuff like that. You just put it on, pick out a pair of shoes and you are ready to go. If you have chosen the right kind for your body, you have nothing to worry about.
Just be sure that it is not way too short or revealing. You don’t want to look like you are coming off too strong. Another option if you are not into shorts is the playful jumpsuit. But long panted jumpsuits sometimes look too complicated to guys and it might not be the best option. But it is still one. If you have chosen a romper just throw a shirt on a blazer over it and some simple shoes and you are a bomb.
- The easy dress looks
Dresses naturally make it seem like you have an easy going personality. At least colorful maxi dresses and some tank dresses can work in that way. And they kind of are easy for you for real. If you are into short dresses just going for one that is in your favorite colors to show off your legs. But don’t show too much cleavage, because it will be too revealing. And if you like long – go long, but then have your back open – men love backless dresses.
Keep in mind one thing – there is no way a guy won’t love and easy dress. You want to know why? Well, it is just one piece of clothing – an easy breezy one. Effortlessly put on an even more effortlessly taken off. It is flirty without being filthy and that is what is good about it.